Me: Your aunt wants someone to bring a ham to Thanksgiving. Do you want to bring a ham? Or would you rather us bring lumpia?
Cole: YOU’RE GOING TO MAKE ME CHOOSE?!
Me: Look at it this way: A ham was requested and no matter what, a ham should be there. Anyone can bring a ham… But only we can bring the lumpia.
Cole: You make good points. We will bring lumpia.